Exactly one year and one day after my mum's bypass surgery.
I won't pretend to be sorry. I'm just relieved.
I understand it might be hard for my dad. After all, no matter what I thought of the woman, at the end of the day, she was still his mother.
But now my parents can finally start living their lives. Finally.
Peace shall now hopefully prevail back in their house. And hopefully, the next time I see them, they won't look as aged as the last few times.
Until next time,
Cheers!!!
I am sorry to hear of the demise, please pass my condolensces to your dad. May you Grandma rest in peace ...
ReplyDeleteI understand what you are saying Fully as I seen it myself ..
take care
Bikram's
It's weird but I want to say congratulations. Never thought I will say that on anyone's death. Well may be Osama but not someone's grandmother.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear this PB..hugs ! I know your feeling right now but nevertheless she was your granny and somewhere it's your loss as well...but I'm glad on the larger side things will fall in place...
ReplyDeletedon't take me wrong!
Thanks Bikram for understanding...and will pass on the condolences to my dad.
ReplyDelete:) I know...it's weird, isn't it? But like I said...I can't pretend to be upset because I am not. And yeah, I don't think I ever wanted anyone dead ever...except her.
ReplyDeleteScribby, honestly...I'm not feeling bad. I didn't even shed a tear whereas back in 2006, when my mum called me to tell me her father died, I was sobbing and felt sad for days. This time I am truly relieved. :)
ReplyDeleteyou think she is looking up and regretting how she treated people ?
ReplyDeleteReading this, I just wish to die with my shoes on and not make anyone, anyone look aged because of my presence.
ReplyDeleteYou are so straightforward and honest.
ReplyDeletehere's hoping that both the deceased and the living are finally able to find peace.
Hugs
Condolence for the demise of ur grand mother.
ReplyDeleteI understand ur angst.... people make choices... which makes them live even after they are gone- good or bad... is their choice.
we have so much to learn from this....
take care
I hope your mother learns to be at peace. :)
ReplyDeleteAnd I know you are relieved. :) Let the women finally rest.
Here after a long time PB.
ReplyDeleteCondolences to your dad. I hope now your parents have a peaceful life. As for you, I believe you will be content and peaceful.
May her soul rest in peace and the peace prevails.
ReplyDeleteTake care
Not sure she knows what regret it Jake...but she's looking up all right. In fact, it took a lot of self-control on my part when on FB a cousin commented that she is looking down on all of us to comment on that with 'don't you mean looking up'...but if I do, my parents are going to cop some flak! :P
ReplyDeleteI guess Nisha as long as you are not narcissistic like my grandmother was, everything will be fine!
ReplyDeleteYep I am Raindrop...I find that I can't lie very well...and yes, hopefully they will now find peace...
ReplyDeleteI'll pass on the condolences to my dad Restless...thanks for the comment...
ReplyDeleteI hope so too Nids...just hoping now my parents don't have guilt instead...knowing them it's quite likely! :|
ReplyDeleteThanks Maddie...I'll pass it on. I do hope now that they can live their lives!
ReplyDeleteHoping the peace prevails Shas...thanks for the comment...
ReplyDeleteCongrats PB! I just wish mine would die soon too :(
ReplyDeleteI totally empathise Ava! Fingers crossed...
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